Why a song suits a best friend
With best friends, gifts are often either too practical or a running joke. A song can be both a joke and a love letter at once: verses full of the dumbest moments you shared, a chorus that says what you would never say sober. It travels well, too: a link in the group chat on their birthday, or played on speaker at the bachelorette.
What to include
- How it started: the dorm, the first day of seventh grade, the job you both hated.
- The legendary night: the road trip, the festival, the wedding where you both cried.
- The in-jokes: quotes, nicknames, the word only you two use.
- The serious part: when they showed up for you. One honest line in the chorus is enough.
Good moments for a best friend song
- Their birthday, especially 21, 30 or 40
- A wedding, as a toast you do not have to sing yourself
- Moving away, or a reunion after years apart
- A breakup, a new job, a new baby
- The anniversary of your friendship, if you are that kind of friends
Style and mood
Rap fits a lot of in-jokes into a short space. Pop makes a sing-along for the group. Rock works for friends who met at shows. If you want tears instead of laughs, go acoustic and touching. Most best friend songs land best as warm with humor.
What to avoid
- Exes and secrets: what is hilarious between you two may hurt if their partner or parents hear it. The gift page link can travel.
- Too many names: if the whole group appears, the best friend gets lost. Keep the spotlight on them.
- Only jokes: a song that is all roast and no heart feels thin. Save one honest line for the chorus: thank you, I'm proud of you, I would not have made it without you.
Read the lyrics once as if you were them. If every line makes them smile or swallow hard, it is ready.
Sample lyric: a best friend song
An example, so you can see how specific lyrics can get. Your song is written from your details.
[Verse 1] Ashley, room 214, freshman year, bad perm You microwaved a fork and called it "a learning term" We drove to Nashville on a dare with forty bucks and gum Got lost in Kentucky, sang the whole way, dumb [Chorus] That's my girl, that's my ride or die She'll steal your fries but she'll never let you cry Twenty years and the story's still going Ash, you're my person, I just wanted you knowing